Monday, May 25, 2009

TRUST

Most teenagers nowadays face one common problem.Parents jus dun seem to trust thier kids nowadays.So, d qquestion arises.Who are to blame ?? parents or d children ? It is not necessary dat all well educated parents trust their kids and neither do all un-educated parents dun let trust their kids.So,wat is d factor dat contributes to a parents trust to their child.Dis is my perception on dis matter.
Here's a story first...

"There were 2 good friends.A guy and a girl.Dis guy has a large collection of marbles while dis girl has a large collection of sweets.One day, the boy decided to trade all of his marbles for d girl's sweets.The girl agreed.But,instead of giving d girl all of his marbles, dis boy kept his one favourite marble for himself.D girl on d other hand gave all opf her sweets to d bot not keeping a single sweet for herself.Dat nite,d boy found it hard to sleep.He kept wondering wether if d girl, like him, kept sum of her sweets for herself.D girl on d other hand cud sleep peacefuly without any doubt as she trusted dat d boy,like her wud hv given all his marbles."

Wat I concluded frm dis story is,parents dun trust their children because dey do not even trust demselves.Dis is wat differentiates why certain parents trust their child while sum do not.Parents hv also went through d process of being a teenager.Therefore, dey to might hv done stupid stuff like skipping school,copying during exam,'lepak-ing' at d mall, smoking, drinking n many more.So,dey noe wat dey hv done in d past and not all parents share with their children wat dey hv done in d past.Neither do all the stories dey told us about dem b true.Now,why parents dun trust their child is fear. D fear of their child, repeating wat dey hv once done in their teenage life.Dey stand by d fact dat 'Prevention is Better Than Cure'. If my dad once skipped school or went out to a pub at nite with his frens, it is only natural for him to think dat i ass his son wud do d same. If my dad was d disciplined type dat rarely did anythn stupid, den he too wud trust me.

So, D reason why parents dun trust their children is simple. D plain truth behind all those excuses is...
-THEY DON'T TRUST DEMSELSVES
-DEY NOE DEY WERE ONCE UNTRUSTWORTHY

Well..dis is only my perception on dis matter.

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